Of Heartbreak and Healing :)

Guess many have been wondering for quite some time now why I changed my blog name. It used to be Teampatlou before as a mixture of me and my boyfriend Pat’s names way back when we were together, this entry has been lingering on my mind for quite some time now and I honestly don’t know if it’s a good idea to publish this post but after giving it some thought I decided to publish this post because I want to pour my heart out on my sleeve and share with you some lingering thoughts at the back of my mind 🙂 

Me and P before attending one of his friends wedding 🙂

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A Story on Why Love is always accompanied by Madness

A long time ago, before the world was created and humans set foot on it for the first time virtues and vices floated around and were bored, not knowing what to do.

One day, all the vices and virtues were gathered together and were more bored than ever. Suddenly, Indigenous came up with an idea:Let’s play hide and seek.”

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Learning the Difference between Holding on and Letting Go

There is a fine line between Learning the difference of Holding on and Letting go 😀

When to hold on..

When you are in a quandary as to whether to hold on or to let go,

analyze the situation you are in very carefully, very subjectively.

Use your mind and not your heart to evaluate the pros and cons of either decision.

Realize that your feelings and emotions can color your thoughts,

and you might end up making the wrong choice.

If you still see a glimmer of promise that it (the relationship or the situation you are in) can still work out,

then by all means, try your best to make it happen.

Sometimes we give up too easily without putting a fight.

There is really no easy way to live life;

you have to negotiate the hurdles in order to win the gold.

As they say, try and try until you succeed.


when to let go…


On the other hand,

you should be able to put your foot down and say,

“Enough is enough!” and disentangle yourself from the web of suffering and indecision before you reach the point of no return.

So, how can you tell when it is the time to let go?

It’s time to quit when the hurting is too much.

When your health (both mental and physical) is at stake.

When the disadvantages far outweigh the advantages.

When it dawns on you that it is a love that cannot be.

When you feel unneeded, unappreciated, unwanted, unloved.

When you start to feel chronically negative and ugly, and in fact are looking ugly.

When dark emotions of self-destruction or vengeance start to darken and harden your heart.

When you feel horribly bitter about life.

And when you feel it is a win-win situation for all, most especially for you, to call it quits.

So now after perusing over this,

I hope I was able to shed a little light on those jaded thoughts lingering in your mind 😀

just keep in mind that whatever you choose,choose for the better 😀 

-Read an article which bores some semblance with this content. This was another article  I found on my Notes Page on my Facebook which I would just want to share.