Of Heartbreak and Healing :)

Guess many have been wondering for quite some time now why I changed my blog name. It used to be Teampatlou before as a mixture of me and my boyfriend Pat’s names way back when we were together, this entry has been lingering on my mind for quite some time now and I honestly don’t know if it’s a good idea to publish this post but after giving it some thought I decided to publish this post because I want to pour my heart out on my sleeve and share with you some lingering thoughts at the back of my mind 🙂 

Me and P before attending one of his friends wedding 🙂

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Things to ponder on for the longevity of your relationship


I came across this post from Elite Daily while browsing through my Facebook account earlier and it makes me think that with the advent of the hook up culture now especially since it is being propagated by the media and also some outside forces the real question is “Is it worth it?” or “Is the temporary high caused by some feeling worth it to destroy something that you have built over the years?” If your answer is “Yes” then perhaps you should not be in that relationship in the first place. However, if you find that one guy who changes your life and makes you a better person, makes your hazy views and paradigms in life a little bit clearer and someone who treats you like a princess. Well then honey, you have struck gold. Consider yourself lucky! 🙂 Work towards developing your potential and reaching out towards your goals. Live each day as if it’s your last, love like there’s no tomorrow and work on cultivating your relationship for the better so both of you can work as a team and maximize your potential.

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